This is reposted from my Facebook account.
just because i'm sex positive, it doesn't mean that i endorse a lack of consent. i may write fiction that involves nonconsent and consensual nonconsent. the latter is a thing and it is out there. it is part of the sex positive thing. the former, however, is straight up assault and the only place it could be 'ok' is in fiction, because fiction is not real and no one is being hurt. this is why murder is ok in fiction but not in real life.